A Nigerian woman identified simply as Daramola Kehinde has advised singles to be vigilant when choosing a partner after her uncomfortable experience.

She revealed on Tiktok that she married her pastor husband as a virgin and they had been married for ten years before finding out about his secret family.

She said that during their marriage, she shouldered all the responsibilities in the home because he refused to work and said he was called to full-time ministry.

However, ten years after their marriage, she learned that he was married to another woman from his hometown and had children. According to her, she decided to leave the marriage and get a divorce.

Luckily, a year after the traumatic experience, she found another man and got married to him. Posting photos showing her transformation after leaving the toxic marriage, Kehinde wrote:

“This was me October 3 years ago after I discovered the so-called man of God I got married to has been legally married to his husband with kids. And he lived a fake life @davathdareiande, good years. A pastor that deflowered me on our wedding night.

Hummmmmmm and still had the guts to keep his past from me. Thank God for exposing him. I had been the one sustaining d family while he refused to work said God called him. Singles pls shine your eyes well. Before marriage, prayer is good but do investigations well on who u are spending the rest of your life with. See ehn, this man ruined my dreams, visions, talents, gifts but thank God I came out alive”

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