Nollywood actress, Christabel Egbenya, has taken to social media to advise women to stop doing spousal duties for their boyfriends.
She gave this advice in a video shared on her Instagram page on Friday, March 24th. In her opinion, men do not like women who cook, clean, and sleep with them before marriage.
She also advised women against staying multiple nights at their boyfriend’s house because their partner will have nothing to expect from the marriage.
The mother-of-one, who married her husband in November 2021, said she did not do any menial work in his home before the wedding but he still married her.
She also dismissed the idea of helping a man financially before marriage, saying it does not guarantee that he will marry the woman.
In her words,
“This message if for all you who are yet to get married, yet you pack your bags to man’s house turning yourself into his wife. You will wash, iron, cook his foods. Wash his bathroom and give him access to all your sexual parts. Tomorrow when he dumps for another person, you will start crying and complaining. Why will he not dump you? When you have offered him all you have. Stop being a wifey when he has not paid your bride price. “
“Ask around, for me I don’t go to men’s house to cook when I was still single. Cook and wash for you? Have I finished cooking and washing for myself? If I manage to go a man’s house to spend a day, he would be thankful. Because, I don’t usually do that. Also stop giving them money, so you will not be disappointed when they eventually end up not marrying you.”
Watch her speak below,
