Popular Nollywood actor, Jim Iyke, has revealed the cause of the breakdown of his marriage to Lithuanian-American lawyer, Dana Kinduryte.
The couple got married in 2015 after welcoming their son, Harvis but separated after a few years.
Jim Iyke said his inability to form an emotional connection with his wife after his mother’s death in 2014 was a major factor in the breakdown of his marriage.
The veteran actor, in a candid interview with media personality, Toke Makinwa, admitted that he did not reciprocate Kinduryte’s affection; Instead, he focused solely on becoming a father.
Jim Iyke further said that he had to assume the position of a strong male role model in his family because he was the only boy.
He said,
“I was dealing with two parallels that I could not contain. I just lost my mom, and I was in a place where I didn’t know how to navigate the motions the woman was giving me.
I just needed somebody. She didn’t need me that way. She needed to love me, and I would love her back, and I couldn’t reciprocate. I turned all my attention on our child, and she didn’t know how to deal with it.
I didn’t grieve properly. I was the second head of the family; my father had fallen apart emotionally, and I had only sisters.
I did not allow myself the luxury of grief but it cost me because at the end of the day when everybody survived, I started struggling.
My wife was trying to get me to see a therapist. I was like, ‘Are you crazy? I have never been with one. She was trying to get a reciprocal for the love she was giving in the union but it did not work.”
Watch him speak below;