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“Putting All Your Fortunes To Your Mom’s Name As A Married Man Is Off” – Media personality, Solomon Buchi Reacts To Footballer Hakimi’s Divorce Drama

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Self-proclaimed life coach, Solomon Büchi, has weighed in on the heated debate over whether a man’s wife should be considered part of his family.

He shared his opinion while responding to a trending discussion about 24-year-old Moroccan footballer, Achraf Hakimi, whose wife, Hiba Abouk, 36, filed for divorce and reportedly demanded for half of his fortune but got nothing because his properties were in his mother’s name.

In a series of tweets, Solomon Büchi explained why entrusting your wife with your finances is of the utmost importance.

According to him, if you can’t trust your wife with your wealth, there’s no point in marrying her because it’s weird to involve your mother in your finances.

He tweeted;

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“Your next of kin should be your wife not your mother. Your assets should have your wife’s name on them too. This is biblical marriage; you have become one in Holy Matrimony. If you can’t trust a woman with your riches, don’t marry her. Why marry who you don’t trust with your ALL?
This will probably get a lot of pushback from the redpilled movement, because of the recent Hakimi’s case: a successful footballer whose wife filed for divorce and division of his assets and properties, only to discover that he put all his fortunes in his mother’s name.This will probably get a lot of pushback from the redpilled movement, because of the recent Hakimi’s case: a successful footballer whose wife filed for divorce and division of his assets and properties, only to discover that he put all his fortunes in his mother’s name.
Hence, she has nothing to gain from the incentivized western divorce culture. This seems pragmatic, but it is not right and ideal. I can imagine the mammoth defense that some mummy’s boys will get today. Putting all your fortunes to your mom’s name as a married man is off.
It shouldn’t be so. And yes, women who also marry rich men, with intentions to incentivize the marriage through later divorce are wrong too, but we can’t correct a wrong with a wrong. Literally, the scriptures states that a man needs to leave his father and mother to be married.
This means a re-prioritization: after marriage, your wife becomes your number one. Your mother is still your mother, but you’re not one with her, she’s one with your dad. Respect them, but your immediate priority is your wife, and everything about you, she must have access to.
As much as these sad things happen, I’m trying to reconcile us to how things should be. Christian men shouldn’t be thinking in this manner: willing all you have to your mom as a married man. Nah.
And men, do your due diligence before you marry. If you can’t trust her, don’t marry her, because marriage without trust is like roommates living together. Hakimi did it doesn’t make it right. Don’t start off wrong. Things still work the right way.
Christian marriage is not a place to fight to protect; it’s a place to give. Something must give. Something must be at risk. We don’t truly love, if we aren’t risking anything.”

 

 

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“She Ignored Me Despite Being A Star” – Davido Recounts First Time He Tried Speaking To Wife Chioma (Video)

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Nigerian superstar singer, David Adeleke, popularly known as Davido, has opened up about meeting his wife, Chioma Avril Rowland, and sheds some light on the evolution of their blossoming relationship.

Davido and Chioma first met at Babcock University, where Chioma was studying economics and Davido was pursuing a music degree.

In a gripping documentary with YouTuber and vlogger, Tayo Aina, Davido gave his fans a fascinating insight into his everyday life.

The 43-minute documentary delves into the artist’s busy everyday life, which is punctuated by the constant travel, fleeting moments of rest, and leisure time aboard private planes hovering several thousand meters above sea level.

In the captivating documentary, Davido revels in his love for his beloved wife Chioma, recalling the story of how they first met and how he tried to strike up a conversation with her during their freshman year.

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In his words;

“I was in school for a year before I blew up. That was when I met my wife. I remember the day I saw her. I can never forget it. I was in a Prado, and I looked behind, and I saw this girl walking. Just there with her bag, it was Chioma. I told Lat (Davido’s personal assistant), ‘Omo, I like that girl. Go and call that girl for me.”

However, initial attempts to make contact failed as Chioma did not respond, but fate intervened and she eventually found her way to Lagos where they met up again.

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Singer Davido Reacts After Cheque ‘Disrespected’ His Wife, Chioma In Viral Video (Watch)

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Nigerian superstar singer, Davido, has reacted after his junior colleague, Cheque publicly apologized over a viral video in which he appeared to disrespect his wife, Chioma.

Cheque, a Nigerian singer-songwriter whose real name is Akanbi Bamidele Brett, sparked widespread internet reactions a few days ago after posting a freestyle video.

In the video, Check could be seen apparently admiring Davido’s wife and Chioma’s photos on his phone while he sang her a love song to her.

He had slid past Davido and his wife, Chioma’s pictures, and when he got to a photo of Chioma alone, he zoomed in on it and continued singing.

The gesture sparked controversy among fans and followers, with many saying it was disrespectful to zoom in on Chioma’s photo and sing to her.

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As you scroll, check out some of the reactions that followed the video.

Following the backlash, Cheque deleted the video and apologized to Davido on his Twitter account, saying he meant no disrespect.

“Never meant any form of disrespect to Davido. baba has been there for me anytime I need am, even on Zoom remix. I no just reason am well before posting. Thank you and love you big bro .. OBO”, he wrote on Twitter.

In response to Cheque’s public apology, Davido quoted the tweet with a love emoji, expressing his acceptance and forgiveness.

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“Why I Ran Away From My Family, Changed My Identity” – Actress Chacha Eke Recounts Terrifying Episode

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Popular Nollywood actress, Chacha Eke Faani, has shared her experience of a horrific “manic episode” she went through a year ago.

The talented actress – who recently celebrated her 10th wedding anniversary with her husband, Austin Faani – opened up about her mental health struggles in an Instagram post on Friday, June 2.

She revealed that she had her scariest episode around this time last year when she woke up at 3 am and felt unsafe at home.

Chacha Eke revealed that she was given a fake ID in a desperate attempt to run away from home during the manic episode, which she says lasted for months.

In her story, Chacha Eke revealed that she walked to a parking lot in Asaba at 3 am and then drove to Lagos. She spent days wandering the streets, hotels, and beaches of Lagos. Eventually, she used the fake ID to travel to Ghana by boat.

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Luckily, with the help of an employee named Esther from First Bank Plc in Ghana, Chacha Eke was able to regain her memory. Esther recognized her and helped her remember her true identity and home.

Read her full story below,

“Slide 1 photo was me by this time last year-1st June 2022. I was in the middle of a manic episode that lingered for months. One day, I woke at 3am feeling unsafe and ran vigorously to a nearby motor park. I travelled to Lagos from Asaba like a fugitive.

Loitered the streets/hotels and beaches in Lagos for days. It was a rough blend of schizophrenia, depression, identity crisis and bipolar disorders. Using this “made-up” Identity card of me from one of my imaginary companies; I headed for Ghana by boat. Clad in black jalabia, I kept moving. I passed border after border; terrified & unrecognized.

In that moment, I was a “Drifter”. It was at First bank in Ghana through a lovely bank staff named “Esther” that somehow, I remembered me. I remembered home. Esther was an Angel the universe used to open my eyes to the reality I disconnected from. I began to make my way back home. It took days but I returned, albeit sickly & in denial. One year later, l’m thankful to have survived one of my craziest episodes ever recorded.”

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